I was recently asked if I have ever researched birth control and what it does step by step in your body. "Nope." was my answer and I think in the moment I really honestly didn't care. Sorry to the individual who asked me, just my honest answer ha ha. My day was already bumming me out and the last thing on my mind was birth control. All I knew is that it would prevent pregnancy and, fingers crossed, clear up my flipping acne. Oh and of course the fact that I can have a stroke, blood clot, migraines, nausea (yep!), and blurred vision (shockingly yes I do have blurry vision lately!!), and every possible horrible thing that can go wrong in your body. But heeeeey, I wont get pregnant!! GEEEEZ, pregnancy doesn't sound so bad now does it? I mean at least a child isn't trying kill you (supposedly ). ;)
Moving on. Later the next day I got thinking about the question and started doing some research. I actually did wonder about what the pill does and how it works. I am getting married soon and about a month ago I went to the doctor and was put on the pill so that my body would get used to it over time. Honestly, I was so rushed about it that I really didn't take the time to check into it, I figured the doc would explain its function, and that it wasn't a big deal to me. That did not happen. She didn't explain it at all or go into depth about it. I wanted to know about it because I have never been a big medicine person. I don't like taking antibiotics or medicine. I hate even taking allergy pills because even the "non-drowsy" ones make me sleepy, and now I am supposed to take something that is going to completely change my hormones and body? Yeaaa...I was a little nervous. But I just took it anyways because, like I said, I was rushed and I figured millions of women do it soooo whatever I'll get over it.
Well, my thoughts...I HATE THE PILL. It's the devil. I'm crazy one day, sad the next day, in pain another day, grumpy the next, and then as happy as a clam after that day. I'm always tired and dizzy. Blek! I think there are women out there who can agree! (not that anyone is probably reading this blog ha ha)
Ok now I'll get to my point of this post. I read this book and encourage others to read it also. It explains the functions of the pill and all types of birth control methods. I was a bit shocked and surprised at what I read. I also did other research into articles of what it does as well, and what each type of method of birth control does. There is a reason why birth control is only 99.whatever% effective. Did you know that there is possible conception that takes place and that it isn't until a certain amount of days later that implantation takes place. Birth control thins the lining of your uterus so that implantation wont take place and causing the lining to not hold enough nutrients supply for a conceived baby. Normally the lining thickens as you reach that fabulous time of the month that we all just jump up and down for. This is to provide nutrients, oxygen, and blood supply to the new possible baby that was just conceived days before. Not seconds or minutes, but days! That means there is a little guy/gal floating around for a few days until he/she finally implants on the lining.The only problem is that it's alive but wont implant because eventually it is flushed out. I hope you are putting the pieces together here.
No one knows how many times you will actually ovulate on birth control and how many times conception takes place throughout the time period that a woman is on birth control. The point is that it happens though, otherwise there would be a birth control that is 100% effective not 99%. Yea 100%-99%..same thing right? Except what about those who DO get pregnant on BC and were NOT partaking in anything that would cause the BC to become ineffective? This is why it is not fully 100% effective. There are possible chances where a baby is conceived and is ALIVE but can't implant because of the thinning of the lining and it dies when it is flushed out. Take what you will from this book, I found it pretty interesting to read. I am just posting this also because like myself, I don't think a lot of us really researched in depth about what BC does to your body to cause it to do things like I've just explained.
And for my other big speech that everyone does on posts: I obviously did not write this post to judge, instigate an argument, or belittle anyone. I am not that kind of person. I know that this is a huge controversial subject and everyone has their own opinions on it. And you know what, that's ok! In fact it's great really because each person should do their own research on the subject and find out what you will settle on at the end of the search. The point is to research and study what you are putting in your body. I felt like sharing because it really settled on my heart, it might help someone who randomly strolls onto this blog that has a similar question. Again, no judging! I have friends and family that are for/against birth control and pro-life and pro-abortion and we have disagreements but at the end of the day we love each other and no one thinks they are better than the next.
Enjoy the read! It's very interesting and it's great for both views on BC!
http://www.epm.org/static/uploads/downloads/bcpill.pdf
"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, And before you were born I consecrated you, I have appointed you a prophet to the nations." Jeremiah 1:5
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Thursday, July 5, 2012
Morgan and Steffen's Wedding!
I'm a little late on catching up on here! June was awesome and I'm really not sure what other word could describe it! It was basically one big party. June 9 we threw Morgan a bridal shower and she got spoiled with all kinds of cool things :) Then the bachelorette party was on June 16. It was so much fun! We started off at Heather's house with some good food and drinks. Morgan opened up all her presents and I just have to say that all of us there have some dirty minds hahaha. We headed down to Keys on Main where we drank and sang the night away and danced our booty's off!
Then June 23 rolled up! It had kinda snuck up on me that my best friend was getting married and on the drive up to her house I may oooor may not have started bawling. Like a baby! The 22nd we had gone over to Kelly Creek Farm to set tables up and decorations. After we finished, we were able to get cleaned up real quick and book it to the rehearsal dinner.
All us bridesmaids decided to spend the night at Morgan's house and by the time we had ate and finished up rehearsing the ceremony we were all wiped out. Like old times, me and Morgan shared her bed and I made comment saying that it was our last sleep over. We decided we have a love-hate relationship with growing up ha ha. I think everyone can agree that at times we wish we were still kids with no worries or responsibilities! However, that's impossible. Sucks huh?
I don't think I slept at all that night, mostly because it was so flipping hot! Morning came to soon like it always does and I finally gave up trying to sleep. I made some coffee and put on How I Met Your Mother and then one by one people started creepin out of their rooms and we all started getting ready. I had a minor panic attack doing Morgan's hair because the top would do what I wanted it to, but I finally was able to get it right. At least I hope so!!! She said she loved it...Morgan I hope you didn't lie to me.
Boom we are all ready and it was showtime! We all piled into the car and I kept trying not to cry on my way over. Damn freaking emotions. Why can't I have a cold heart??? Just kidding that would be creepy. So pull up and we all pile into the bathroom at the farm and get Morgan in her dress. Which was STUNNING! Then we all piled into the car again and drove up the little hill and started getting out and lined up to head down the aisle. I was walking from the car and Morgan yells, "Ashley! Where do I go? Do I just stay here??" I laughed and pointed at her and said, "YOU STAY." And then I told her that she needs to wait for her Dad and he'll come get her....and then I lost it! I cried...and cried.....and bawled....and sobbed. She yelled, "Stop it! Don't make me cry!!" My bestie was getting married and it hit me right then. So I somehow kept it semi-together walking down the aisle and then when Taylor was walking her down I think everyone lost it. Morgan is the baby in her family and right then I think her getting married and not the "baby" anymore really set in.
The ceremony was beautiful and Taylor had written a song for Morgan and Steffen that he sang during the ceremony/unity candle. That sooooong! Two words: water works. And just like that they were married! The reception was awesome and gorgeous, I really really wish I would have had my camera with me. I'm so bummed that I didn't. We danced and ate great food. We did the toasts and cake cutting and then the time came for them to take off. I do have to say one thing....groomsmen.....where were you for the car decorating??????? FAIL.
Other than that it was perfect ;)
I love Morgan and Steffen and I'm so glad that they are happily married! I'm also really happy that they got a sicky sweet bbq because now I can go eat their food...muahahahaha! Weddings are so weird. I was so happy and sad at the same time. I know I wasn't losing my friend, and I know we will still see each other tons and all, but it's definitely closing one chapter of our lives and starting a fresh new one. Both awesome but kinda sad too. Growing from kids playing in the dirt to now getting married...it's just a weird thing and that's really all I can say to explain it. Time really does go so fast. God is so good and has blessed these two so much and I can't wait to see what their future holds!
Then June 23 rolled up! It had kinda snuck up on me that my best friend was getting married and on the drive up to her house I may oooor may not have started bawling. Like a baby! The 22nd we had gone over to Kelly Creek Farm to set tables up and decorations. After we finished, we were able to get cleaned up real quick and book it to the rehearsal dinner.
All us bridesmaids decided to spend the night at Morgan's house and by the time we had ate and finished up rehearsing the ceremony we were all wiped out. Like old times, me and Morgan shared her bed and I made comment saying that it was our last sleep over. We decided we have a love-hate relationship with growing up ha ha. I think everyone can agree that at times we wish we were still kids with no worries or responsibilities! However, that's impossible. Sucks huh?
I don't think I slept at all that night, mostly because it was so flipping hot! Morning came to soon like it always does and I finally gave up trying to sleep. I made some coffee and put on How I Met Your Mother and then one by one people started creepin out of their rooms and we all started getting ready. I had a minor panic attack doing Morgan's hair because the top would do what I wanted it to, but I finally was able to get it right. At least I hope so!!! She said she loved it...Morgan I hope you didn't lie to me.
Boom we are all ready and it was showtime! We all piled into the car and I kept trying not to cry on my way over. Damn freaking emotions. Why can't I have a cold heart??? Just kidding that would be creepy. So pull up and we all pile into the bathroom at the farm and get Morgan in her dress. Which was STUNNING! Then we all piled into the car again and drove up the little hill and started getting out and lined up to head down the aisle. I was walking from the car and Morgan yells, "Ashley! Where do I go? Do I just stay here??" I laughed and pointed at her and said, "YOU STAY." And then I told her that she needs to wait for her Dad and he'll come get her....and then I lost it! I cried...and cried.....and bawled....and sobbed. She yelled, "Stop it! Don't make me cry!!" My bestie was getting married and it hit me right then. So I somehow kept it semi-together walking down the aisle and then when Taylor was walking her down I think everyone lost it. Morgan is the baby in her family and right then I think her getting married and not the "baby" anymore really set in.
The ceremony was beautiful and Taylor had written a song for Morgan and Steffen that he sang during the ceremony/unity candle. That sooooong! Two words: water works. And just like that they were married! The reception was awesome and gorgeous, I really really wish I would have had my camera with me. I'm so bummed that I didn't. We danced and ate great food. We did the toasts and cake cutting and then the time came for them to take off. I do have to say one thing....groomsmen.....where were you for the car decorating??????? FAIL.
Other than that it was perfect ;)
I love Morgan and Steffen and I'm so glad that they are happily married! I'm also really happy that they got a sicky sweet bbq because now I can go eat their food...muahahahaha! Weddings are so weird. I was so happy and sad at the same time. I know I wasn't losing my friend, and I know we will still see each other tons and all, but it's definitely closing one chapter of our lives and starting a fresh new one. Both awesome but kinda sad too. Growing from kids playing in the dirt to now getting married...it's just a weird thing and that's really all I can say to explain it. Time really does go so fast. God is so good and has blessed these two so much and I can't wait to see what their future holds!
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